The Power of Modeling Wonder and Curiosity For Kids

And a tutorial for sewing felt hearts

I’m beginning to realize how important it is to model wonder, and to regularly express curiosity out loud, in front of my kids.

Recently, I found myself wondering if I could sew a simple star out of felt. I’m not particularly skilled at sewing; I know a few basic stitches and that’s about it. But instead of dismissing the idea, I followed the curiosity. I gathered some felt, thread, and a needle and worked my way through a small craft project.

When I showed my kids the little star I made, they were genuinely impressed. My eight-year-old immediately asked if she could try sewing something herself. I gave her the supplies, and she dove right in.

Before long, she had decided to sew felt hearts for all of her classmates for Valentine’s Day. She made a plan, created a supply list, and worked steadily to complete the project almost entirely on her own (with just a little guidance from me).

It struck me that my small act of wondering, “Could I sew a star?” and my willingness to try, struggle a bit, and share the result had become a catalyst. It sparked something in her. What began as a tiny flicker of curiosity turned into a beautiful ripple effect.

This experience reminded me that modeling wonder doesn’t have to be big or elaborate. Even if you’re busy and don’t have the time or energy for a sewing project, simply expressing curiosity out loud matters. Wonder about a new recipe you’re trying. Pause to admire the moon. Notice the colors in a sunset.

When children hear us say, “I wonder…” they learn that curiosity is valuable. They learn that trying new things — even imperfectly — is worth it. And sometimes, that small expression of wonder is all it takes to inspire something truly wonderful in them.

Here are the instructions for the felt hearts:

Supplies:

  • Felt
  • Fabric with different patterns
  • Needle ( big eye is important to make it easy to re-thread) and thread
  • Fluff for stuffing
  • Scissors
  • Fabric pencil (or really any pencil to help with cutting out patterns)
  1. Decide on your shape. We did hearts for Valentine’s Day, but you could do stars, circles, squares, etc.
  2. Cut out your shape, make two identical pieces (one for the front and one for the back). If you are making a lot of them, then create a stencil that you can use to outline the shapes on the fabric so it’s easy to cut.
  3. Cut out your smaller shape in the fabric. We just did a smaller heart to be in the middle.
  4. Sew the smaller shape in the middle of the front piece.
  5. Sew the two pieces together, leaving an opening for the fluff. Stuff in the fluff and then continue sewing to the end.

Some tips: The big eye of the needle is important. The thread comes out easily and it’s best for the eye to be big so that it can be re-threaded over and over again. I needed to help with the tying knots and also tying up the last stitch so that it won’t come out. A nice pair of fabric scissors is nice for cutting the felt – they are sharp so depending on the abilities of your children, you may want to help them out with the cutting.

Have fun!

In wonder,

Rachel

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